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This year
molly irwin: finding joy
by blackgoldfish
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"The perfect weekend rewards your efforts for the week before and prepares you for the week ahead." -- John Mayer.
hold on
by blackgoldfish
"as in hold on to your hope.
your dreams.
your memories.
your faith.
your joy.
your love."
阿里山，日出有大美
by blackgoldfish
莊子說：「天地有大美而不言。」
意指天地與人世間存在著無以言表的美麗、美好與美妙，
但天地始終沉默無言，並不張揚。
透過詩歌、言語，我們將其描繪出來，因而有藝術之美，
但我相信無論如何都不及親眼所見。
A Day is a Tourist, A Year is a Traveler
by blackgoldfish
『A day is a step, a year is a tango. A day is a tourist, a year is a traveler. A day is a chance encounter, a year says love. A day is frustration, a year is a melody. A day is a lump of clay, a year is whatever you want it to be. A day is a thought, a year is a philosophy. Every year counts. Glenfiddich.』－Glenfiddich〈Every Year Counts〉TVC
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2008
歲月長 衣裳薄
by blackgoldfish
「眼淚的存在，是為了証明，悲哀不是一場幻覺。
那麼連眼淚都没有了呢？那麼只剩得徒然為自己所作的假設之後呢？悲哀又是什麼？
我所看過寫悲最有同感的文字來自亦舒：在該刹那，身體一部分永遠死亡。
通俗點說：走肉行屍，具體點說：連呼吸都覺得累，呼吸太造作的话，不如說，
一想起還要繼續坐着的話，忽然茫無頭绪，但覺累不可支，已跟失眠無關。
你試過走着入睡，睡到失眠嗎？那是比失戀是一場感冒更可遇不可求的發現。
我所理解最悲的事情是﹕悲哀後遗症，引致打後的歡娛都得小心翼翼，樂而忘返的日子，一去不返，再也没有投入的資格。
誰给我全世界，我都會懷疑，心花怒放，卻開到荼靡。
林夕說，他寫過最悲的事情是﹕原来我非不快樂，只我一人未發覺。
他說，他所知道最有效的悲極生樂古方﹕要决心忘記，我便記不起。
我們不斷成長，就是為了遺忘。」
我說它閃亮 ，它就會發光
by blackgoldfish
刻卜勒牛頓的內心中，一定存在非常強烈的渴望
對於這世界所浮現的道理不管多微小都想要了解
這才能使他們熬過許多寂寞的歲月
致力解開天體力學的秘密
-- 愛因斯坦
"live from you heart, you will be most effective."
by blackgoldfish
"sometimes I need to hear things like that.
carry on."
12 Essential Rules to Live More Like a Zen Monk
by blackgoldfish
1. Do one thing at a time.
2. Do it slowly and deliberately.
3. Do it completely.
4. Do less.
5. Put space between things.
6. Develop rituals.
7. Designate time for certain things.
8. Devote time to sitting.
9. Smile and serve others.
10. Make cleaning and cooking become meditation.
11. Think about what is necessary.
12. Live simply.
11.
【聖嚴法師開示】- 幸福的起點
by blackgoldfish
幸福的真諦應該是「平安就是福」，能不能夠平安雖然和外在環境有關係，但是決定性的關鍵，還是在於主觀的自我心態—如果自己的心態能平安、知足，就是幸福；如果不知足，要獲得幸福就很難。
2007
Advice from Warren Buffet
by blackgoldfish
"Don't do what others say, just listen them, but do what you feel good"
真正的對話
by blackgoldfish
電影《征服情海》裡，飾演美式足球小牌運動員的小庫巴古丁，有一回在兩人激烈且帶情緒而近乎失控的交談後，對飾演失意運動員經紀人的湯姆克魯斯說，「對你來說這是爭吵，但是對我說，我認為我們終於有了對話。」
keep going bambinas
by blackgoldfish
“Aunque llueva, aunque el camino sea largo, aunque la montaña sea alta, llegaremos al FINAL”
“It doesn’t matter if it rains, if the road is long, if the mountain is too high, we will get to THE END”.
我的愛情老師
by blackgoldfish
第二大心法，是愛人，很需要理性。在《破惘》中有這一句：「要維持兩人的愛情關係，第一重要的是有理性。通常人們以為愛情既然是感性的，所以對愛情就不應該講理性。其實愛情是感性的是一回事，如何維繫愛情的關係又是另一回事。所謂講理性，不是叫人在談情說愛時大講邏輯，而是叫人多為對方設想，凡事寬容一點。」
inspirationpeak :: quotes about life
by blackgoldfish
"To live content with small means; to seek elegance rather than luxury; and refinement rather than fashion; to be worthy, not respectable; and wealthy, not rich; to study hard, think quietly, talk gently, act frankly; to listen to stars and birds, to babes and sages, with open heart; to bear all cheerfully, do all bravely, await occasion, hurry never; in a word, to let the spiritual, unbidden and unconscious grow up through the common. This is to be my symphony."
William Ellery Channing
不會用手寫字 - 永恆的溫柔‧永遠的琦君
by blackgoldfish
她從不同的角度去書寫這兩個女人，然後安靜地用文字告訴了讀者：「每個人都有她良善的一面。」就像她多年前說過的：「不要計較別人怎樣對待你，只問自己怎樣對待別人。 」
